Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Day 90 - Worship


Hey everybody!  Sorry I haven’t blogged in awhile; everything has been really busy here these last couple of weeks.  I’m trying to finish up all of my papers for school, apply to North Dakota for the summer, and really just enjoy the rest of my time here with my family while I can.

One thing I haven’t written about yet is the music and church services we have here on campus.  Well on Sundays I usually attend our “home” church (that is literally 30 feet from our front door), but on Tuesdays and Thursdays we have the equivalent of Chapel here on campus.  Both were quite an adjustment, but the anthropologist in me loves the cultural differences between our American style of worship and the contemporary Ugandan style of worship.  Things aren’t all different though; much of the American way of doing things has transferred over, at least to Ugandan Christian University, which is relatively westernized. 

Our Chapel services, or Community Worship as we call them here, are scheduled to be an hour long.  If you’ve ever been to Uganda you know what I mean.  They’re about an hour long every Tuesday and Thursday and they usually follow the same schedule every week.  The service starts with worship, some in Luganda and the rest in English, which is directly followed by introductions and prayers.  Someone is called forward to read the scripture passage the correlates with the sermon and then the Reverend will give his piece.  Usually the end of the service involves some form of group prayer (The Lord’s Prayer, The Grace, etc.).

As a USP student we are required to attend a certain number of Community Worship services while we’re here in Ugandan.  It’s been a good way for us to get involved with other Ugandan students and also to interact in a different way with the culture.  Our place of worship is in a covered, but open auditorium with a stage and hundreds of those fancy chair/desk seats that most of us had in grade school.  Before everyone sits down they wipe off their wooden seat.  I used to laugh to myself when I saw them doing it, but now I find that I’m doing it myself.  Just add that to the list of weird things Jess started doing when she came back from Africa…

Overall, I like community worship.  It wasn’t always my favorite thing to go to, but I never minded it while I was there.  The music is always good; we have drums, keyboard, and guitar usually. Anyone and everyone sings no matter of how talented they are, which some people find annoying but I think it’s a good indicator that our friends here weren’t raised with the same “I’m not good enough” mindset that usually holds us back from things we want to try.  The messages the Reverend gives don’t usually resonate with me, but that’s okay.  Church functions are a huge part of campus involvement here and it’s cool to be a part of something like Community Worship for a semester.


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Also, thanks for all of your mail guys. I'm leaving Uganda (for Rwanda) in a week though, so no more mail please, otherwise I'll never get it! :) Love you all.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Day 88 – NEW BLOG POST! FINALLY!


So today I stayed home to write one of my big papers that’s due soon.  To everyone’s surprise, including mine, I finished the whole thing before 5pm! What an achievement.  Eight pages down, now only 12 or so more to go! This semester has flown by.  Our classes end this week! Next week I have one exam (LUGANDA, ehhhhh) and then that’s about it.  I’ve just got to get these papers out of the way.

I also went with Maama to school today after I wrote my paper.  I’ve gone with her once before on a Sunday morning.  She’s the Chaplin at a Day/Boarding School, so she teaches the Bible & I get to teach songs.  It sounds fun I guess, to teach songs to kids, but it’s actually really stressful and it makes me nervous.  First of all, I have to sing the song over and over again until the kids understand the words and the tune.  Good thing I’m not overly self-conscious about my voice.  But then you have to remember that English is the second language here… so that presents some challenges.  And lastly, I asked a woman today how many kids attend the school & she said that there were about 1,200.  I’d say that about half of them have been present while I’ve been there.  Overall I’d say that it’s gone pretty well.  They absolutely loved the first song that I taught them…

 “I want to sing, sing, sing. I want to shout, shout, shout. I want to sing, I want to shout, PRAISE THE LORD! When those gates are opened wide I’m going to sit by Jesus’ side.  I’m going to sing, I’m going to shout, PRAISE THE LORD!”

All of you camp people are smiling/singing along :)
The second one I taught them just today was…

“I love you Lord & I lift my voice to worship you, oh my soul rejoice.  Take joy my King in what you hear.  May it be a sweet, sweet sound in your ear.”

That one was okay.  I think that the older students enjoyed it more than the younger ones though.  It’s getting late & I want to sleep, but first I need to share my baby moments of the day.  Everyone loves baby moments.

Nankinga Ruth Mary
1)   I walked out of my bedroom.  Came back not 3 minutes later to find the baby jumping/dancing on top of my laptop case with my toothbrush in her mouth.  Unforgettable moment.
2)   Maama brought Mary with us to the school for some reason.  A few minutes after we got in the car she tossed her into the backseat with me… On the way back home from school I got to carry her the whole way.  She fell asleep against me for a good 40 minutes.  Oh guys, she’s just wonderful.  I don’t even care that she used my toothbrush.

P.S. I have 37 more days in Africa, but only 15 more days with my host family in Uganda. What in the world am I going to do without the childrennn…??! AH man.

Day 87 - Ahem.

1) Women iron the bed sheets here.
2)   There are half a dozen vicious looking mosquitoes trying to gnaw their way through the net around my bed at the moment.
3)   I bought an elephant print dress recently.
4)   I’m getting really creative in the way that I kill cockroaches these days.
5)   Today was my friend Natasha’s birthday.  She’s my running buddy and my daily encouragement.  Too bad she lives on the West Coast! :(

Day 86 - Thanks


I’m definitely the most loved person here.  No joke, I’ve received no less than 20 pieces of mail in the past 3 months from over a dozen different people.  The last time I got a package my friend Kate shook her head & said, “Jess, if being in Africa doesn’t teach you anything else I hope that you realize how loved you are back home.”  And then I opened that letter & read the words “YOU ARE LOVED” & I just smiled.

Thanks guys.
I love you too.

(But really, the postmen are starting to get jealous.)

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Day 66 - Birthday!


I am fully aware that in a few months I’m going to look back on this moment and regret not being out in the kitchen with my family instead of here, lying in bed.

It’s 8pm, so right now my world is black aside from this computer screen. My mosquito net looks oddly eerie in this dim lighting… the power has been off for hours, as usual.  I finished writing a paper for one of my classes & now I just want to sleep until the end of time.  I’m always running around doing things here, it really wears me out! But we haven’t had dinner yet, sooo…

So today was interesting.  Like I said, I’m tired.  I’m behind on a lot of schoolwork & it just keeps coming.  Our schoolwork here is a bit unusual too… we have papers like normal, but we also have a billion of these things called “guided engagements” which are basically discussions with certain people throughout the semester.  It’s a good idea, but there are still so many that I need to complete- AH.  Weekends don’t really exist here, or the late night “I’m going to write this 6 page paper until 4 in the morning if I have to!” concept that I’m so used to back home.  Nope… weekends are booked with either trips or cultural activities & to think I could find espresso here is laughable (Except not funny at all. I almost want to go as far as saying that espresso is a human right… but that just sounds silly. However there is a commercial here that informs me that the U.N. has “declared that access to Internet is a human right!”).

ANYWAYS.

My little host sister Mary turned 1 year old yesterday.  It was absolutely wonderful.  Mama bought a cake and had my brother & his friends slaughter one of the goats.  Who knew that goat would taste so good?? It was SO GOOD.  I don’t know if they fried it or what, but it really looked like popcorn chicken but with goat meat.  I even asked for seconds (which is rare).  My sisters were super excited about the cake too.  Cake is pretty expensive here, & it’s really only had for celebrations like graduations and weddings.  People don’t usually celebrate birthdays here, so that’s not considered a big occasion.  Last night we were talking about everyone’s birthday & I realized that no one in my family even knows their birthday.  My Mama had to look hers up… & she told me that she honestly couldn’t remember if Patience was born in 2004 or 2005… So I understand now why Patience keeps telling me that she is different ages.

I hear my Mama out in the kitchen now, so I should probably go & greet her.  Besides, long blogs get really boring to read.  Before I leave I’ll throw out a few other tidbits of my day…

-       -I was kicked out of religions class today (along with a dozen others)
-       -My ministry class this afternoon was about Invisible Children & Kony 2012
-       -There’s nowhere I can be alone here... I can’t even sing because people are everywhere. I want a soundproof box in my next care package please! 


Saturday, March 10, 2012

Day 62 - Dear Grandma Verna...


Thank you for the package you sent me, I loved all of the candy and drink mixes.  My little sisters are currently enjoying the heart-shaped stickers.  They like to put them on the back of their hands, on their faces, and all over everyone else in the family.  I wish you were able to be here for all of my exciting adventures, or at least see all of the pictures I’ve been taking.  Since you can’t really see what’s going on here I thought I would write this post especially to you & explain everything in vivid detail so that you can picture it in your mind when Grandma Linda reads it to you…

This is Africa.
It’s hot- sometimes humid, sometimes dry, usually dusty, and almost always bright and sunny.  It’s so bright here that I often have to cover my eyes when I talk to people outside.  The dust doesn’t look like the dirt on the ground in MI; Ugandan soil is a deep shade of red. When the wind blows the streets are filled with swirling dust and scattered leaves.  It really is quite beautiful.

This is Uganda.
Right now I’m standing at an elevation of over 3000ft.  Hiking, running, and even walking up small hills or steps make me lose my breath… so naturally I blame my poor physical condition on the lack of oxygen in these parts.  I’ve seen so many amazing sites here so far: mountains & valleys, so green and alive; lakes & waterfalls, powerful and breathtaking; and the wildlife & natural plants that grow in this country are so bountiful & bright.  I really think that every flower is small miracle… they are so unique and exquisite, I wish I could bring them home for you.  Sometimes when we drive by the nursery where they sell flowers & other plants I think about how I might sneak one back home to the U.S. in my suitcase.  I really don’t think that they’ll let me, but I like to dream.

This is Mukono.
I live in a small city.  We reside about an hour’s drive outside of the capital city.  Because I live in a more populated/educated area of Uganda, most people speak at least some English and many people are fluent.  I have several modes of transportation while here in Mukono: walking, Taxi, and sometimes my host father drives me to school.  Did I mention that everyone drives on the left side of the road?  So when Taata drives me to school I end up sitting in what I’m familiar with as “the driver’s side.”  But the steering wheel is on the other side of the vehicle!  It is strange… I’m still not used to the road signs that say “KEEP LEFT.”  I’ve noticed that a lot of people even walk on the left side of the sidewalk.

This is Nassuti.
            My host father is the Reverend of our small church in the little district of Nassuti.  We have a few hundred people at our three church services every Sunday morning.  The first service is in Luganda, the local language, the second service is in English, and again the third service is Luganda.  The people here love to sing & dance.  In church we’ll sing the same chorus over and over (up to 25 times?) and the congregation will just keep clapping their hands & singing along.  It’s hard for me to enjoy the worship here because it’s so unfamiliar… I like when songs are well written & have deep meaning to them, but here everything seems so simple.  It’s not bad, just different.  “We will praise you Jesus with clapping today, clapping today…”

This is Home.
            Our house is made with cement and drywall, it has been painted the color of steel grey, and it is relatively well kept.  I have my own bedroom with a window.  The window opens outward instead of up & down like my windows in America.  I sleep in a bed with a foam mattress under a white, netted mosquito net.  I’ve heard that some people here make wedding veils out of mosquito nets, if that helps you to picture them better.  I have a small table in my room that I use to keep my chest of supplies (clothes hangers, extra blankets, ect.) and also my small things like purse and water bottle.  Around the second week of the semester Mama gave me a nice plastic green chair so that I also have a place to sit and do my homework in my room.  I have an outlet next to the door that works most evenings, so I can charge my cell phone and computer if I need to.  I keep my suitcase at the foot of my bed along with an under-the-bed storage container that I use to keep all of my clothes.  I do my laundry by hand Grandma :) It’s really interesting… we set up about 4 basins & fill them halfway with water.  Starting in the first basin we wash everything individually with a bar of soap & some serious elbow grease.  Mama says that I don’t have enough energy to clean things properly so she always helps me… honestly, I just don’t want to ruin my clothes.  All of my things are starting to get little fuzzies on them because we rub them together so roughly.  Once we wash them once in the first basin we move them down the line & wash them again, and again… My host family is super nice.  They spoil me with all sorts of treats and snacks.  Last night for dinner I had: watermelon, bananas, papaya, jackfruit, pasta, and cabbage salad.  I really enjoyed it because there was so little starch! (Usually we ONLY eat starch…) I feel really blessed to be with such a caring group of people.

This is Me.
            My name is Jessica Rachael Strom.  Some people here call me Kitibwa (Chee-T-bwa), or “glory” in Luganda.  I am also “Sister,” “Auntie,” “Teacher,” “Muzungu,”(white) & “Mukwano” (friend).  This semester I am learning.  I’m learning about myself a little bit; learning that I really like America, learning that I treasure my family and friends above most anything and I’m learning that those things are okay.  But mostly I’m learning about the world and Christ’s work within it.  I am being challenged to see Christ everywhere and to understand that Christ does not NEED me for his will to be done among the nations.  Christ has been at work in these places from the beginning of time… the Middle East, the Buddhist temples, and the most destitute areas of the world have not been forgotten by our loving God.  I’m learning that God reveals Himself in different ways to different cultures.  It’s hard to condense all of this information into a single post, but I would love to talk about it more some other time… Grandma, I’m doing well here.  In the beginning it was really hard to be so far away, to be so isolated and lost in a community that I really knew nothing about.  I still don’t know all that much about Ugandan culture, but I’m becoming more confident everyday.  & to be completely honest, the instant coffee that you and Grandma sent me has helped a lot.  The little things that are familiar help me steady my feet and remind me where I come from.  I might talk a little bit differently when I come home, I might act a little weird, and I might dress a little more modestly, but overall I think I will be the same women I was when I left… if a little more observant and open-minded.


I love you very much & I hope that this email finds you well.  Grandma says that you’ve been enjoying her leftovers recently, I’m so jealous!  :) Have a good day & tell the rest of the family that I say hello.

Always,
Jessica

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Day 45 - Things you wouldn't know unless I told you.


-       - I carry toilet paper with me everywhere because there is no toilet paper in public restrooms.

-       - A good day becomes a great day when they decide to serve us a piece of pineapple along with everyday’s serving of rice & beans at lunch.

-       - Gas is priced by the liter, not by the gallon.

-       - I have a 40-minute walk to and from school everyday.

-       - Sugar is considered one of life’s basic necessities here, a Ugandan will put two HEAPING tablespoons of sugar in his/ her mug of tea.  When the Reverend talks about helping those in poverty he says, “…we try & provide them with the basics, like soap & sugar.”

-       - Ugandans raise their eyebrows to confirm or agree with a statement (I just might have started doing this…)

-       - We say “Mmmm” all of the time here.  It means: “Yes,” “Wow,” “Really?” “What?” and many other things.

-       - Wash is done outside & put on the line to dry, but it’s inappropriate to show undergarments in public, so we have a fancy underwear mobile that we clip all of those things to… then we cover the whole thing with a skirt slip so they’re out of sight.

-       - Supper is served “when it’s ready.” This has proved to be between 8:30 and 11:00pm.  (Grandma & Grandpa, I told my family that you guys eat at 5:30pm & they exclaimed, “What!? That is too early!”)

-       - I run barefoot around the African track about twice a week :)

-       - My family watches TV more than I do.  Mostly Spanish soap operas and the news.

-       - Girls in primary & secondary school (everything before University) have to shave their heads as part of their uniform.  They all have short haircuts.

-       - Manners don’t really exist here… it’s good to be polite, but nobody uses the words please or excuse me.  People say, “Get out,” “Give me the plate,” “You bathe now,” and it’s alright… that’s just how they speak.

-       - Children up to age 10-12 will walk around naked in the house and yard.  No shame at bath time, haha.

-       - Most families have “house help” to clean and cook.  Our family has three women.